In a relationship, a partner may withhold and distance themselves emotionally. They may be emotionally unavailable to keep the relationship fresh.
In reality, their need to understand why you’re crying will also show respect for you.
Aquarius men are known to be the intellectual sort, but they are also known to be some of the most sensitive men out there. They have a side of them that is very feminine and tender.
They also tend to be very analytical and sometimes aloof, even if they’re actually hiding something.
If you have a guy like that, you are in luck because you are on the right track! Here are a few things that you can do to make him more emotionally available to you.
Avoid duplicity
When you are trying to get a guy’s attention, you’re not going to do it using very difficult-to-understand English. Just speak in your own language or a language that you can understand.
If he cannot speak English, he probably won’t like you anyway.
You need to stop doing things to attract attention and stick to what you are really good at. If you’re smart, you’ll take advantage of his analytical mind and do things that you do exceptionally well.
Rely on your voice
Everyone loves a sexy voice! It makes a man want to know more about you and fall for you harder. So, when he’s in bed with you, put your sexy voice on and go all out.
Try speaking in a quiet, low tone.
Use your body language to show him that you are really into him. The best thing is to practice a couple of times before the first time.
Do it under your pillow or in your car so that it feels like it’s real. If he is into you and finds it attractive, he’ll let you know.
Do the things that are your passion
Aquarius men tend to be skeptical. They are known to question their loved ones at some point. Don’t you dare try to convince them that your little chore is important?
You need to let them know that your work matters, and you’re not just a good thing to have.
Your passion will make them want to take care of you and give you the attention you deserve. If you’re not passionate about something, make sure that your phone isn’t ringing non-stop for your latest social media breakthrough.
Put your phone away for the day!
Sing to him
Aquarius men are also known for being super romantic. They’re known to get lost in their thoughts during dinner, so if you can let him into your thoughts, he will surely be as captivated as you are.
Sing him a song, or go to a karaoke bar and sing to him all night.
There is nothing more intimate than talking in front of people and getting all of your thoughts out of your mouth. In fact, karaoke bars are also one of the best places to get over your shyness and let loose.
Be a little shy
One of the hardest things to do in a relationship is being in front of each other and being modest. Most men don’t like it when you’re blunt, especially when you’re not very shy. You have to be very confident to ask for things because that will help him see you more clearly.
Surprise him with flowers, chocolate or small presents every once in a while. You can also join him at the pub or to play a game.
Going out is a great way to test the waters, to see if he is willing to do something new.
Be both
When you are dating, be both shy and confident. Remember that most Aquarius men are straightforward, but they also like to hear many truths.
They don’t mind honesty at all, but they also like to make you feel good about what you’re saying.
Most of the time, they can tell if you’re full of shit. They like to trust you, and you need to show that you are both confident and shy because that will help attract each other.
Develop a new habit
If you aren’t practicing a new habit, try to start today. Try to choose something that you never did before and see how it makes you feel.
Some things might surprise you and will make you want to give it a try. This is a good way to break the boring habits of your old boyfriend.
Make him miss you a lot so that he’ll take the time to call you a few times or stop by your apartment. Do whatever it takes to make him feel happy and make him want to spend more time with you.
Fake it till you make it
Aquarius men aren’t really faking much. They already know how they want you to be with them.
They already know that they’ll have to work for it. They won’t give you their whole life to fix it all, and you shouldn’t expect them to.
All they’re asking is that you listen to their suggestions and work on them. Be firm and look the hell in the eye.
He’ll respect you more and want to spend more time with you if you’re taking care of his needs.
Be a gentlemen
If you have already noticed that he isn’t the “good ol’ boy” type, don’t lose heart. You can still make him a gentleman by letting him pay and letting him take care of you.
You’re worth it, and he’s worth it. Show him that he doesn’t need to try too hard to impress you.
Let him treat you the way he thinks you deserve to be treated.
You don’t have to hide your opinions in a corner or pretend not to be proud of your accomplishments. It’s fine to give him some background about your life, but he’ll appreciate it much more if you let him in your world.
Listen to the little things
When he is talking, listen to the words, but don’t get distracted by anything else. Please pay attention to what he is saying, and don’t let yourself go off-topic.
Even when you’re talking about the most mundane things, you can learn a lot by listening to each other.
Listen to the feelings he’s trying to express, and tell him what you’re feeling, too. This shows him that you care about him and will be there for him when he needs you.
Create new traditions
Create new traditions together, but do it a little bit at a time. The most important thing to remember is that he should have plenty of freedom in making new traditions so that you two can bond over something new.
Bring back all the traditions from your childhood, or create new ones, but make sure to do something with each other. You don’t have to do something exciting, but it’s important to have something new to look forward to.
Do not let yourself be left behind just because you don’t have the same hobbies. You should always be there for your partner, no matter what it is that he does.
