Knowing what it is to get a woman emotionally is a gift in itself. If you learn how to be able to show her, she is not alone, how to be there for her, how to let her know that you have a safe place to go to no matter what, and how to give her permission to be the person she truly is, it will build an emotional bridge of trust.

You must learn to know what to say and how to say it.

If you are a man or woman enjoying lovemaking with a woman but feel like something is lacking, you are probably not connecting with her emotionally. If you think that you are just not getting your point across, it might be that you are not connecting emotionally with her.

Here are some tips to help you be a better lover in your relationship with a woman.

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It is important to remember that it is normal to be nervous when making love with a woman. You are nervous because you have been programmed into using your brain in sexual situations, not your heart.

When you realize this, you can relax.

For instance, it will help if you think of a place that makes you feel relaxed, and that is somewhere you can go to when the moment arises. For instance, if you have any issues or concerns about your sexual performance, get a good book on sexual enhancement or even a good sex coach.

Most men can’t or don’t take enough time to get a good sexual coach to help them.

When you are relaxed, your sexual performance and how she feels about you will be a lot better.

Sexual intimacy

When a man and a woman connect sexually, they release oxytocin into their brains. Oxytocin is the hormone that causes a woman to feel a maternal bond to her man.

When men have a good sexual connection with a woman, she also feels like a woman and a lover.

The best way to learn how to get your woman sexually aroused is to get her sexual release by letting her do some things that a man would enjoy. For instance, do as she wants you to do and show her that it is all right to touch you.

Do as she wants you to do and show her that it is all right to touch you.


The first step to getting a woman sexually aroused is to show her that you want to take it slow. In other words, you can ask her to have sex with you in the missionary position or do anything that gets her aroused but do it slowly.

You do not need to take charge and take control of the situation. It is her pleasure that you are looking to get for her.

Body language

It is important to note that when a man is aroused, his body language changes and becomes seductive. A man’s body language will change drastically when he is sexually aroused.

For instance, his facial expression will change, his voice will become deeper, he will become erect, and his hands will begin to take control.

This is a good thing because the hands are the weapons of the mind. The more the hands do, the more powerful the message.

In all of its forms, a hand can convey a lot of sexual messages, not only sexually but verbally, as well. For example, you can use your hands to give a woman a back massage.

You can caress her breasts and let her feel the pleasure of your touch. You can take her hands and put them on your penis to let her know how she is turning you on.

You can also caress her hair and let her know how much you love her hair. When she feels the love, it will always be good for her.

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Women want to be touched during sex. Sometimes, they even expect it.

It is a good idea to touch her with your body in a way that you would like her to touch you. This will be your touch on her, and it will create the kind of intimacy you have been looking for.

Let her rub her breasts on you and let her put her hands all over your body. Try to allow her to touch you in the same places you touch her.

Be sure to show her that you are a lover, and this will be her touch on you.

Making eye contact

Eye contact is a signal that you are seeking intimacy with a woman. For this reason, you should let her know that you are interested in her and that you want to talk to her.

This will help her to be very comfortable. If she is not comfortable, then it may cause her to close up.

It is always a good idea to keep in touch with her.

As she opens up to you, she will find herself falling in love with you. You will be right there by her side when she feels like she needs you.

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Sexual intimacy is intimate and can create a bond between two people that is not easy to break. When two people have sexual intimacy, they learn how to talk and share their feelings and fears.

If you get into bed with a woman, it will be hard to have the kind of intimate conversation with her that you want to. So, when you are in bed with her, be the man you have always wanted to be.

Please do not give her a reason to stay away from you. Be the man that she needs and wants to be with and do everything you can to get her to open up to you.

If you want to get a woman sexually aroused, then all of these things are important to you. Your goal is to seduce a woman into a sexual encounter that you both enjoy.

But, you will not be able to seduce her if you do not follow these steps.

Please don’t give her a choice to take physical distance

That brings us to one last thing to do to get her emotionally detached from you. If you ever want her to take physical distance, you have to give her a choice.

For example, you might want to go for a walk on the beach. When you and your wife want to go for a walk on the beach, she could stay on the porch or in the kitchen.

But, if you want her to go for a walk on the beach with you, you have to give her a choice. She has to feel that the choice is not yours.