This article will discuss how to tell a girl to leave you alone. This guide has been written to assist guys in breaking up with girls so you don’t get hurt.
Here’s how to tell a girl to leave you alone.
There is no point in this article unless you’re serious about breaking up with a girl.
If you’re not seriously seeking to break up with a girl, you won’t get anything out of this article.
Be serious
I’m serious about breaking up with you. I know you think it’s all fun and games, but life is short; it’s up to you to decide how you want to spend your precious time on this Earth, and you’re making the wrong decision when you’re with a girl.
Girls are not a priority, even if it seems that way to you.
It’s just a game to you. A game you play with another person.
Yeah, she may be the love of your life, but she’s not your girlfriend. And you’re not her boyfriend.
Girls can hurt you just as much as a boy can hurt you.
The big difference between a guy and a girl is that a guy can get back into the dating game at any time.
A girl can’t.
She can’t break up with you for another dude. She can’t, for example, dump you to date your best friend.
A girl can’t physically kick you out of her apartment.
She can’t physically push you into traffic.
A girl can’t even fight back physically when you go on a rampage.
The good news is that she’ll leave you alone when she realizes you’re not going to be her boyfriend, no matter how much she wants you to be.
So let’s get to it.
How to tell a girl to leave you alone
You have to be 100% sure that you want to end the relationship.
It doesn’t matter how hot it is outside, it doesn’t matter if your friends are in the room or not, if you really want to break up with her, you should take your time doing it, and you should do it with a clear head.
And, that’s the most important thing.
Always remember that every relationship is a zero-sum game. No relationship is “good” for one person if it’s “bad” for the other person.
A guy can’t be dating a girl when he knows he will date another girl in a week.
The fact that the guy is dating a girl at all means that he’s not dating another girl.
The dude is keeping a girl just for himself, and, well, he’s taking a risk.
If the guy doesn’t like the girl, then he’s going to be dating someone else in the next few days, and, well, that guy’s been there and done that.
He won’t risk getting hurt a second time, so he’ll keep his options open for the next best girl.
The thing is that a girl might think that you’re only dating her because you can’t date anyone else.
That you won’t be able to do it.
That you’re either sleeping with her or not.
So, before you break up with a girl, ask yourself these two questions.
First, are you in a relationship with her because you want to be with her, or because she’s going to be there for you when you can’t get a girlfriend for yourself?
If it’s the former, then you should go for it.
If it’s the latter, then you should break up with her.
It’s up to you.
Once you know for sure that you want to break up with her, you have to do it.
Tell her the truth. Tell her how you feel. Tell her what you really want.
Tell her exactly what you think
Once she knows what’s up, it’ll be much easier for her to pack her shit and leave you alone.
And you know what’s going to happen next.
A girl who’s just been dumped isn’t going to stay around and fawn over you.
You can tell her that you’re gonna be busy, but a girl who’s been dumped isn’t going to hear that shit.
She’s going to run the fuck away, and she’s going to be doing it with her best friend in tow.
Oh, she’s going to be giving you some lip. She’s going to try to make you believe that she’s not really going to leave you alone, but she’s probably going to cry, too.
It’s the best thing you could do for her.
Because, after she’s had a good cry and a shot or two of whiskey, she’s going to get right into the trunk of her best friend’s car, and they’re going to head right to the airport.
Where she’s going to meet her boyfriend, who’s also a terrible, abusive piece of shit, and she’s going to run away with him.
She’ll know that you were the only one who ever loved her and that she’s going to run back into your arms just because she can’t have her ideal man.
(Note: it doesn’t matter what your ideal man looks like.
Just as long as he’s not her husband and he’s not a potential or even current father, and, hopefully, he’s a better guy.
If not, then that’s his loss.
Her heart deserves the best man possible because that’s the only man who can handle her.)
You’re going to be back together, and there’s nothing she can do about it.
She’ll keep going back for more because a girl who’s been dumped and who’s going to break up with you for the second time this week will never learn that she’s worthy of love.
A girl who’s been dumped twice and who keeps breaking up with you will never learn to open her heart up again because it will never be there for her to love again.
She’ll never learn to be happy by herself
She’ll spend the rest of her life by herself, feeling sorry for herself, because she won’t have anybody to share her loneliness with.
I’m pretty sure she’ll even start to cry the second you walk into the door.
That’s why you have to stop her.
There’s no other way to do it.
You have to cut her loose.
You can’t keep a girl who’s only in it for the sex, a girl who wants you so badly that she’s willing to hook up with a guy that’s just like you, a girl who hates herself so much that she’s willing to be
with a guy who’s just like you.
A girl who hates herself will hate you because you’ve shown her that being a pathetic loser makes her feel better about herself.
Once a girl loves herself, she can find love elsewhere
But you’re just like everybody else.
You’ll never be able to love anybody.
You’ll have to be in love with yourself.
You have to cut her loose because it’s killing you to see the pain she’s causing you, to see her crying every day.
It hurts to see her throwing away everything you’ve ever given her and not giving a single fuck about what she’s throwing away.
She’s a liar, and you’re going to have to stop being a sucker, and you have to let her go because, in the end, you’re just like her.
You’re a pathetic loser who can’t take her own advice.
