As someone who loves communication, I’m not scared of words and emotions. I understand how to move from the brain to the soul.
I’m a woman with a vision, and vision has spoken. I’m no longer going to hide behind the veil of darkness of unrequited love.
This article will not be about how to find love, but about how to tell a girl you love her.
The day I realized I loved a girl was like any other day. I woke up, drove, walked around the city, ate, and did some things for work.
The day was an average day, which seemed dull and uninteresting because it didn’t surprise it.
Let me explain why she was unanticipated.
You see, you have to be unanticipated to fall in love. That means your girl must not have any idea that you’re crushing on her.
She must not be thinking that you’re her perfect match because she’s been crushing on another guy.
Only if you’re unanticipated will she find out that you’re in love with her. I’ll tell you how to do that now.
Do you know the words?
While you don’t need to speak them out loud (yet, at least), you need to write them down. If you’re not familiar with writing, get a fancy pen and paper or computer app to transcribe what you write in a nice neat list.
When you’ve got that, could you take it to her? Have it with you.
I say this only because it’s inevitable you’ll forget what you said in the heat of the moment and because that will be a bummer for both of you. But take the words with you, just in case you should ever need to use them.
In other words, there are no words to express how you feel. Well, except for “I love you.”
She already knows that. So, the words you’re going to say have to be chosen very carefully.
Talk to her
First things first, let’s talk. Talk to her. Let her know that you’re not done with her yet.
Let her know you still want to date her, talk to her, and make her realize that she’s your everything. Ask her to go on a date with you.
Be honest about how you feel.
Once you ask her to date you, it gives her the confidence to let you know what’s happening between you. When she gets the courage to talk to you about how she feels, you’ll feel assured. You’re ready for love.
You know you’re in love with her. You also know she’s ready to love you back.
You need to make sure you two are on the same page before you say something to her.
Could you show her?
Next, show her how you feel about her. Show her that you’re not going to date her, but you’re going to work on her.
Show her that you’re going to respect her and that you’re going to treat her well. Show her how she can trust you with her feelings and that she can freely express her love to you.
Show her you love her without the baggage of dating.
At this point, you’re the only one who can make her realize that you love her. You’re the only one who can do this by showing her that you love her.
It would help if you always stayed on the same page with her. You both should be one in a relationship that you love.
Give her time
Telling a girl, you’re in love with her means you’re going to give her time. So it would help if you gave her enough time for her to make a decision.
You don’t want to tell a girl you love her when it’s too late for her to say yes.
You can’t force her. The moment you try, she might pull away.
The moment she realizes you’re trying to force her, it’s going to hurt. So, you’ll need to do this in such a way that she understands and feels comfortable with what you’re saying to her.
This way, you don’t make her feel uncomfortable, and you don’t lose your chance with her.
The last step is waiting
Waiting is the hardest part of love.
You wait for that girl to come and say the words, “I love you,” to you. You wait for her to call you and tell you that she can’t make up her mind about you.
You wait for that day. You wait for that day you’ll be together. And then when she says it, you say, “I love you too.”
You wait. And then, you wait again.
You wait again for the day when you’ll officially marry her. You wait for the day that your family and friends will accept her as yours.
You wait for that day.
And then, you wait one more time. You wait for the day that you’ll finally live happily ever after with the woman you love.
The best part about love is the love itself. It is unconditional. So you wait for her.
You wait for the time to come.
This is a relationship. And that means there are things to work on.
You may not even realize you’re doing them, and she might not even be doing them, but I think it’s important to work on them.
It can be tough to see things in a partner that you may have a part in. And if you’re not sure, make a list of these things and try not to give her the side-eye while doing it.
You should also include how you might be doing this and how you can make the necessary changes. In other words, there are things to work on, and that’s good.
This is a relationship, and your starting to learn how to be a better partner.