A girl playing you is a scenario in which you actually believe that a girl is playing you, but really she is not. It is like playing a game of “chicken” on the highway with a semi-truck and actually seeing the truck driver actually pull out in front of the semi-truck so that he can clear out a path for you. However, you continue to think the truck driver is trying to run you over because you are playing a game.
We’ve all been there.
A lot of girls like the sound of a man playing his cards right, and they like it when he gets all flirty and coy with them, especially after she feels like she has already gotten her “come to bed” sex from him, or if she feels she has played him enough times in the past.
When a girl is playing you, she tells you that she wants you to try harder and give her more attention and action from you.
The first question that comes to mind when you meet a girl for the first time is how to tell if she is playing you. Here are some of the signs of being ‘played’ by a girl.
She presents herself in a certain way
She will always show up in a way that will make her desirable. The minute you meet her, her body language will give you clues to what type of game she is playing.
One sign of being ‘played’ is that she will try to get the ‘Game’ on you.
The girl will try to present herself in a certain way to get the attention of men. She will show off her body; she will wear clothes that look good on her. She will spend time on make-up, hair, make-up, and nails.
Her mouth will be stretched to the point where the left side has almost disappeared. She will attempt to give you an air kiss, and you will be in for a quick surprise when she jams her tongue inside you.
You catch her gaze
As soon as she sees you looking at her, she will move her eyes from your eyes and make sure to make a few sultry movements to keep your gaze.
She will not look directly at you.
A girl will never make eye contact when she is flirting with a man. When you do this, she will think that you are flirting with her.
Her energy is always on you
She will always be the life of the party and always in the center of attention. She will always put you in the spotlight and never the other way around.
She will look for ways to get you into the spotlight. She will be in the center of every conversation and show no signs of moving away.
She will feel the need to keep touching you, be touching you, or kiss you at every given opportunity. You will notice that she will jump in and take your place when you are making an effort to say something.
This is a sign that she is on ‘Her’ game. She will make you feel like the man and not the man making an effort.
She makes you feel special
When you are with her, she will make you feel special. She will treat you like a man.
She will flirt with you, make you feel like she is about to spend the rest of her life with you. A woman always treats you as a man.
She will give you full attention to everything that you say and everything that you do. You will notice that her body language will never match her words.
Her body language will match your every move. A girl who is ‘playing’ you will be oblivious to the things that you are saying.
She will get up and walk away when you are talking. She will interrupt you when you are speaking.
She will bend over to see if you are hard. A girl will never make any gesture that a man would make in a similar situation.
A girl will never make a gesture that a man would make in a similar situation.
Her mood changes rapidly
A girl who is playing you is a woman who changes her mood rapidly. She will want to be with you all the time. She will go out of her way to be with you.
She will talk to you even when she has nothing to say. She will smile at you all the time.
She will flirt with you even when there is no chance of you reciprocating. She will spend more time with you than she spends with her own friends.
She will start to lose interest in her friends after she gets you. She will start to talk about you all the time with your friends.
A girl will only keep in touch with you when you are ‘friends.’ A girl who is ‘playing’ will make you feel like the only guy she is with.
Her stories are never about her
You will find her story of where she came from and who she is based on you. She will talk about how nice you are, how perfect you are, how perfect you will be for her.
You will have to hear the stories about her and the men that she has been with. You will be told what you can do to be with her and that you can be her man.
You will have to fall in line and do what she wants you to do. She will never be comfortable with your opinions and will reject any suggestions that you make.
She will make you feel like the only guy that she is with.
She is a fantasist
She will exaggerate her stories to make it seem like you are a part of them. You will be told how nice you are, how perfect you are, how perfect you will be for her.
You will be told that she met you through your friend. You will be told about the men that she has been with.
She will do all the things that will make you feel like you are a part of her fantasy world. She will tell you that you will make her happier than anyone else in the world.
She will manipulate you
She will start to do little things like calling you to meet her at places that she wants to meet you. She will do little things like telling you to meet her after work at a time that she wants to meet you.
She will be very clear about the kind of person that she is. She will tell you how she wants you to be with her and how she thinks you should be.
She will be meticulous when she talks about a particular thing that she is saying to you. She will spend extra time on the things that she says.
She makes up excuses not to see you
She will not have anything to do with you if she does not want to see you. You will find that she is always unavailable for the things that you want to do together.
You will have to wait for her to be available for the things you want to do together. You will have to wait for her to finish a project at work.
You will have to wait for her to finish an interview. You will have to wait for her to pick up the phone to call you.
She will make up excuses for why she cannot meet you.
She is always working
She will always be working on something or the other. She is likely in a relationship.
If she is not, she will be busy with a project or a client. You will find that she is always available when you are free.
She will seem to want to talk to you. You will find that she is very available when her boyfriend is around.
She is self-absorbed
She will have to make up an excuse for why she cannot see you. She will talk about her personal life with you.
You will find that she keeps in touch with people that she has just met. She will make sure that she can spend time with you every time you are free.
You will find that she is not really interested in spending time with you. She will not really care what you do or who you are with.
