This article will discuss why do exes apologize years later? Understandably, sometimes exes want to apologize and clear up misunderstandings so that it is not for one person to apologize to another.
This is because they want to make it easier for both exes.
Do you wonder why exes apologize to one another after being broken up? Maybe the last text or email conversation you had with your ex was not positive.
Or, perhaps it was a great conversation, yet you decided to end it, then regretted it and apologized for it days later.
In the first scenario, you want to clear up the misunderstanding so the both of you don’t go down the same path again, thus making it necessary to apologize again. It also is good to let them know that they are important to you and that you will not regret being with them.
If you are reading this and wondering if you can turn a broken relationship around, the answer is yes!
If you are considering being with your ex in the future, it might be a good idea to tell them that. You want to leave nothing to chance.
If you can let them know that you will not hesitate in the future, they will probably give you a chance.
However, if you have done some serious damage to them in the past and have had no one else to apologize to, they may not want to tell you that they are sorry. I mean, what if they didn’t mean it?
They would have just apologized, and that would have been it.
Some relationships are worth keeping
That is not to say that the other person is wrong in being sorry for what they have done to you. It might have even been years ago that they acted out in a way that was not acceptable.
At some point, you have to cut your losses and move on. This is especially true if you are still in a relationship with them.
When you are no longer part of the equation, you might have to suck it up and forgive them. You will probably get angry and disappointed that they didn’t admit to their wrongdoings and tell you that they were sorry.
You have to be able to let go of that anger and resentment and forgive them.
To really be sure that you can move on and heal, it might be better for you to move on and do what you want to do. If they are worth it, then they will come around.
I mean, they have to if they want to get back together with you. So, you will have to forgive and forget, or at least try to do that.
They don’t know what to say
When you’re in a relationship, the idea of breaking up is one of the hardest things to deal with. We spend months, even years, with someone, get attached, and start to build a bond with them.
Then one day, you’re told to end the relationship because it’s no longer healthy.
This is very hurtful for both parties involved because they have invested so much into it. Even though you know they are not right for you, the idea that you no longer have their emotional or physical support is challenging.
They don’t want to hurt you because it means hurting them, and if there was someone out there for you, they are the last person you want to hurt.
This is when they try to send you a “sorry” letter for a bit to make it better. In that letter, they explain why they have done something that is no longer working and how they will make it up to you in the future.
They hope that just for you to be happy again, you will accept the apology and let go of your anger. This is why it’s always important to be completely honest and never break off contact.
You never know if your ex is still hurting and in need of your support, and they may not be ready to move on yet.
It’s time to let go
Once you’ve put your time and energy into a relationship, you have to let it go. You can’t hold on to it forever and always think about it.
I will warn you that it will take a while to heal from a breakup, but if you have always been head over heels in love with someone, a breakup can be tough.
This type of relationship is the worst for me because it makes me feel about myself. I am a completely hopeless romantic who’s always believed in true love, and I would fall in love again every day, but with a more realistic partner.
If you’re in love with the idea of falling in love with someone, rather than being in love with the person, you will always long for that person. You will always be thinking about them and hoping they will reach out to you.
But this is never the reality, and breaking up with someone, is a big decision you need to make. If you aren’t sure if you’re ready to move on, you should probably focus on yourself.
