This article will discuss why I want to be successful so bad. It is easy to notice when you see those who are doing more with their life than you are.

Let’s see the common thought process of the person in such situations.

I want to be successful because I’ve always wanted to be.

I always feel like I’m never going to be successful.

I feel like I’ll never get the things I want in life.

So I want to be successful to prove to myself that I am worthy and feel better about myself.

On a different note, I want to be successful so bad because I’m not happy with what I’m doing, and I want to be successful to do something about it.

It’s the insecurity in such a mindset that makes such people less likely to accomplish goals.

Insecurity is a cause of my lack of success.

To understand this issue, let’s explore what success is and how this inner conflict of wanting to be successful so bad can cause us not to accomplish anything.

What is success?Woman laptop office working

To be successful is to be valued and to feel worthy, all depending on what the person is trying to achieve.

It is to be important and heard, all depending on what’s needed in the situation.

It is to feel and know that you are important, respected, and heard, all depending on what you are doing.

The world is often focused on physical accomplishments like monetary wealth, family support, fulfilling jobs, getting better grades, and that sort of thing.

It’s important to find ways to use our efforts in our lives in a productive way and benefit other people.

I believe that success is when we start to enjoy doing things for others instead of people doing things to us.

It is when we can gain recognition and value from others instead of feeling like we’re just a burden to others and need to be taken care of.

Success is to be comfortable being ourselves, the people we want to be.

To feel like we are doing things to a certain level that is important and valuable.

That is true success if we feel that we are worthy and of great value.

But is it possible for those in our lives to do things to help us become who we want to be?

Are there things they could do to help us grow?Woman in gray shirt sitting beside woman in gray shirt

Many people forget this simple fact when they are trying to achieve goals.

Instead, they tend to focus on what they can do themselves.

We are not always going to be strong enough to do things by ourselves.

We need to trust that others will do the things we need to help us achieve our goals and overcome obstacles.

That’s what we want.

We want people who are there to help us succeed and do things to help us accomplish our goals.

We don’t want people who criticize us or belittle us and tell us that we are worthless.

That’s a great challenge and lesson in life.


Trust others.

We know that they will always do what they are going to do and do it to the best of their abilities.

That is why we trust them because we know that they are doing what is best for us.

We need to trust them to have the people around us that we want to be around.

We are humans, and we cannot always do everything on our own, but we should try.

I’ve found that I cannot do things by myself, even in my own life, because I am not strong enough.

I need other people to help me so that I can get stronger, so I can grow.

I have friends who do things for me, and I try to help them return because I trust them to help me.

I hope that I can trust others and that other people can trust me to be there when they need me.

If I can’t trust others, I won’t be successful, and I won’t achieve what I want to achieve.

That’s why I’m going to find the courage to trust others and do the things that I need to do.

I hope that, in time, I will grow in confidence and be able to do the things I need to do with more strength and confidence than I do now.

“You get back what you put out.

If you put out negative vibes and negatives things, you will have more negativity than positive ones.

If you smile and look for the positive, then your whole life will be positive.”

― Lee Martin

I love Lee Martin’s quote.

I have never forgotten that quote.

I especially love it because I realized how important it is to focus on the positive and not focus on the negative.

This brings a lot of positives to your life.

When I read a negative thought, I try to decide if that thought is really true.

If it is true, I focus on what that thought is trying to tell me.

This gives me a better understanding of what is real and what is not.

Then I look at the reality of what is true and what is not, and I work on making the change in my life to be a more positive person.

When you are doing something, are you focusing on the negative, or are you focusing on the positive?

Is it time to turn to the positive in your life, or are you focusing on the negative because you don’t feel like you have many positive things to focus on?

“Let no one ever come to you without leaving better and happier.

Be the living expression of God’s kindness: kindness in your face, kindness in your eyes, kindness in your smile, kindness in your warm greeting.”
― Mother Teresa

Mother Teresa’s quote is probably one of the best ones out there.

Everyone needs kindness in their lives because kindness is a requirement for happiness.

If you don’t have any kind, good – feeling feelings toward other people, then you are not a good person.

When you encounter other people, and they mistreat you and talk negatively about you behind your back, that tells you that you are not treating people kindly.

It is essential to be kind because it can make your life better.

And if you are kind to others, they will be kind to you in return.

It is an upward spiralPunctual black businessman checking time on wristwatch on street

I know that it is hard to be kind to everyone you meet, but I have found it possible to be kind to everyone you meet.

Just look for the good in each person, and try to find a way to make their day a little bit better.

Remember that the people around you probably need kindness as much as you need kindness.

This is how you can spread kindness to others.

My favorite part of Mother Teresa’s quote is the part about the people around you needing kindness.

I really enjoy seeing how my friends are always kind to everyone, and how they are always happy.

This is also what makes me happy.